It has happened more lately than ever before. People have
called me ugly in the past and I always thought I was pretty. (Not in a
conceited way,I just thought I was at least average looking) People have told me
I'm pretty..but I honestly don't feel like I am anymore. Sometimes I feel so
depressed I feel like I have nothing to live for.
Any advice would be great,thanks for your time!
I know it is hard, but it really shouldn't (and doesn't) matter what other
people think. It has taken me over 30 years to realize this. I was teased in
school because my nose is larger than the "average" persons. But now I have
learned to accept myself as being unique. I also tend to accentuate the better
features I have such as eyes and lips. Do things that make you happy and forget
everyone else. An added bonus is you will fell more confident with yourself.
The people who told you you were ugly knew that this would get to you and it
worked. They are obviously mean hateful people and their opinion should mean
nothing.
If looks are all you feel you have then you are in a sad situation. But that
isn't all you have and you know it. There are many unknown ways that you will
influence others in the future. You will discover talents you did not know you
had. You may someday be a mother, wife, grandmother and make the world a better
place. Hang in there. You have the world ahead of you to live for and many many
adventures that you never dreamed would or could happen. Just keep your heart
and your mind open.
well let me tell you something, nobody is ugly no matter what. you may be ugly
to one person but to another person you can be completely gorgeous. you seem
very nice and all you need is a good friend that you can talk to about anything
and a friend that is honest with you, can help with your problems, and loves you
for you, lol sounds more like a bf but not really more like a counselor
I just gave "eyeforlove" as Thumbs up on her answer to your question.
She is correct in that YOU "MUST" find something, even if it is ONE thing you
enjoy doing and just sink yourself completely into it to the point of forgetting
all others around you and what-ever they are saying and/or doing that hurts you.
I MUST add this:
Remember the story of Jesus, when all the people were condemning Him and they
were about to Stone the prostitute to death- when he was here on earth in the
flesh as we are?
He sat with a small stick and drew in the sand and only commented back to them;
"If there is any here among you who has NO sin, then you may cast the first
stone." They ALL had to turn and walk away.
My point with this is for you to see how that Jesus threw all of himself into
keeping his own mouth closed, he kept his own self from throwing back at them or
any actions by sitting with only that stick, drawing in the sand.
Many times we get so down that we cannot even find any interest anymore. If this
be your case, just find a comfortable place and sit with a pencil and paper and
draw circles (or what-ever) just to focus your own mind in the moment of being
to help you tune out what is going on around you. There are and is always going
to be very cruel people in this world. But it doesn't mean that we too have to
be that way.
Mostly everybody goes through this,and it mostly the ones who have level
heads,to get over it,is to do not care what little piss pot people think or say
about u.U know who u are and who u want to be,dont change urself to please these
jerks,but make urself better so ur happy,,trust me in the long run,when ur happy
they will not be,thats why many pick on others because if they can bring them
down,then they feel like they just brought themselves up.
and u can b added to my contacts,,cause mean people sux....
You sound bored. Try a hobby, or a project, or a cause, or a personal quest for
whatever, or maybe simply do something nice for someone, just for the
endorphins.
http://www.articledesk.info/Article/Ment...
This may be the help you need.
Do lots of exercise, you feel good great and you look good!
Find someone you trust who you can share these feelings with. Either a close
friend or a professional counselor/psychologist.
:P you sound nice, you just need a good friend to talk to, and you'll be fine
most women always feel that way. GO BUY SHOES. unless you don't have money to
spend. Its a money problem.
if you need motivation and support im hear
go to church and pray
Thursday, August 21, 2008
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